What should I do if my husband drinks every day? Analysis and solutions of hot spots on the entire network in the past 10 days
Recently, "What should I do if my husband drinks every day?" has become a hot topic on social media, with many female netizens asking for help on how to deal with their partner's excessive drinking. This article combines the hot data of the entire network in the past 10 days to provide you with structured solutions from three aspects: cause analysis, health impact and practical suggestions.
1. Statistics of hot discussions on the entire network (last 10 days)

| platform | Amount of related topics | highest heat index | main focus |
|---|---|---|---|
| 28,000 items | 853,000 | Emotional outlet/divorce counseling | |
| Douyin | 12,000 videos | 56 million views | Methods to quit drinking/Family conflicts |
| little red book | 4300 notes | 920,000 likes | Communication skills/alternatives |
| Zhihu | 670 questions and answers | 3700 collections | Medical intervention/psychological counseling |
2. Analysis of frequently occurring causes of drinking
| Reason type | Proportion | Typical performance |
|---|---|---|
| work entertainment | 38% | Mostly sales/business positions |
| Stress reduction needs | 29% | With insomnia/anxiety |
| social habits | 19% | Frequent gatherings of friends |
| alcohol dependence | 14% | Average daily drinking exceeds 200ml |
3. Health risks pointed out by medical experts
According to a popular science video (over 500,000 likes) by Zhang Ming (pseudonym), chief physician of the Hepatology Department of a tertiary hospital:
| Drinking frequency | risk of liver damage | Other complications |
|---|---|---|
| daily drinking | Increased 6.8 times | Hypertension/gastritis |
| 5 times a week | increased by 3.2 times | sleep disorders |
| More than 50g of alcohol each time | irreversible damage | Pancreatitis risk |
4. 6 coping strategies that have been proven effective
1.nonviolent communication: Replacing accusations with "I'm worried about your health", the demonstration video of Douyin emotional blogger @李师 received 1.2 million likes.
2.alternative: A review of non-alcoholic beer shared by Xiaohongshu user "Quiet Drinking Mom", with a collection of 42,000.
3.professional intervention: Beijing Huilongguan Hospital’s online consultation volume shows that the success rate of the combined psychotherapy + drug program can reach 67%.
4.home supervision: Weibo’s super-chat #drinking-check-in-alliance# already has 34,000 people participating in mutual supervision.
5.health replacement: A highly praised answer on Zhihu suggested using new hobbies such as fitness and fishing to divert attention.
6.Emergency handling: Save the contact information of the alcohol treatment hospital (such as the 24-hour hotline of Beijing Anding Hospital).
5. Things to note from a legal perspective
1. Preserve evidence of domestic violence: Domestic violence caused by alcohol can apply for a personal safety protection order (Article 1042 of the Civil Code)
2. Property protection: Debts caused by drunkenness must be proven not to be used for family living together before they can be exempted from liability.
3. Special terms for divorce: Long-term alcoholism that is ineffective after treatment may constitute a legal reason for divorce.
If you are facing such troubles, it is recommended to contact the local Women's Federation (12338) or the addiction medicine department of a tertiary hospital for professional help. Data shows that early intervention has a 41% higher success rate than chronic alcoholics.
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